define

define what a friend is.

define what it means to be a GOOD friend.

what does it mean to be there for someone else? does it mean you compromise? does it mean you do everything and anything the other person asks for?


obviously not. there's something innately wrong with doing almost everything someone asks you to do, especially if you don't agree with it. i'm not talking about doing something illegal or extreme. but even from the way you feel.


a friend is
someone who loves you.
someone who doesn't judge you.
someone who let's you say exactly what you need to say and is still there.
someone who, even when apart, feels so close to you.
someone who puts up with you, but speaks with honesty.
someone who doesn't try to change you.
someone who won't ask for anything because nothing is needed.
someone who won't push your boundaries, because they know.
someone who is willing to suffer just a little... for you.
someone who is willing to go out of their way... for you.

the unexpected becomes the expected. no need to wait for things because it's already there.


what is a friend to you? why are they so hard to come by?




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